I have created this misison to go with the video and it details how you can get the most out of the normally unhelpful Wingmen. Whilst I use the Harrier it's almost entirely aplicable to any airframe and you can simply replace the Harrier with a module that you have Tutorial is here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kR3Xf7Eph7E
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